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- Sponsors | DOVE
Thank You To Our Sponsors Champion Sponsors Karen Albaugh Sarah Perry & Tony Kingsley Christine & Anton Nielsen Laurie Doran & Chris Wasel Andrea Kinnealey Andrea Kinnealey Support Sponsors Robert Hamel Friend Sponsors Non Profit Capital Management LLC G. Stuart and Kyle Murphy State Street Become An Event Sponsor Make A Difference Today
- Donors | DOVE
Donor Spotlights Thank you to all our donors for their support and generosity. Learn more about the people who contribute to DOVE and join a community of passionate people dedicated to supporting survivors and ending domestic violence. "My name is Betsy Lussier and I am a long standing supporter of DOVE. I became involved many years ago when I was looking for opportunities outside of my home to be of service. I went to an information night and the mission of DOVE really resonated with me. I became involved and began working on fundraising and event planning. The more I learned about the organization, the more I wanted to be involved. The staff’s passion, the programming and the impact these programs had on people’s lives was amazing. I took the DV training and spent some time volunteering in the shelter working with the children. I joined DOVE'S Board of Directors in 2011 and served six years, including 2.5 years as Board President. I am extremely proud of our accomplishments and the way DOVE has grown into a forward thinking inclusive organization. Supporting DOVE is important to me because I want to stand behind an organization that serves people and carries out its mission with great intention and passion. Over these past fifteen years, I have seen the impact that DOVE’s programs and services have made to so many. As long as the need exists, I will continue to support DOVE. The best piece of advice I ever received is - you learn a lot more by listening than speaking." "My name is Doug Briggs and I am the Chairman and CEO of Quincy Mutual Fire Insurance. I was originally introduced to DOVE through Betsy and Phil Lussier while Betsy was on DOVE's board of directors. The first DOVE event I attended was a gala and the incredible experience left me inspired to become more involved with DOVE's important work supporting survivors and their families within the community. The issue of domestic violence is important to us because it aligns so well with our charitable giving mission of supporting organizations that provide basic human needs such as food, shelter, and healthcare. We have supported organizations such as Father Bill’s & MainSpring, Habitat for Humanity, and the South Shore YMCA in the past. We are proud to support DOVE as they provide survivors of domestic abuse safe housing. The best piece of advice I have received was my parents to be honest, ethical, and caring for others." "My name is Barbara Maida and I am a retired professional jeweler. I live near my 4 grown children and 5 grandchildren, whom I enjoy playing an active part in their lives. My children and I are survivors of domestic violence and it has been a passion of mine helping other victims become survivors. I first learned about DOVE while looking for an organization to volunteer at. I proceeded to get involved by attending all of DOVE's trainings so I would be informed on the domestic violence issues that people were facing in today's society. I absolutely LOVE donating and supporting DOVE because of their broad range of services. I am also grateful for the extremely devoted staff and volunteers who are always ready to help in any way they can. As soon as you walk into a building with someone from DOVE, you can feel the love. The best piece of advice that I have received came many years ago: listen to what your inner voice is telling you and you won’t go wrong."
- Support Today | DOVE
Thank You For Your Support It has been a time where we have all needed to learn to be flexible - where family and friends are especially important. These continue to be difficult times for our most vulnerable community members. DOVE’s clients are in greater need than ever before. Your support is of vital importance to us, and we are so grateful to have you as a part of the DOVE family. Learn About Event Sponsorships
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- Domestic Violence Awareness Month: The Tiny World of an LGBQT+ Survivor
LGBTQ+ communities tend to be small. If someone feels safe and accepted as their most authentic self with only a few people, their world tends to be even smaller. LGBTQ+ survivors may only have a small circle of chosen family, which includes their partner, and may shrink even further due to the isolation typical of abusive dynamics. Thus, these survivors may share their entire support system with their abusive partner. Due to a limited number of LGBTQ+ services and spaces, the only spaces they may be out in – and therefore could talk about their relationship in – could be those their partner frequents. So, who will an LGBTQ+ survivor tell if they experience abuse? Fear of being refused services based on gender or sexual identity is a powerful barrier to seeking support. Will they be believed? Does the person they are talking to recognize the intricacies of abuse in the LGBTQ+ community? Even if they are believed and provided services, these survivors don’t know if support will be accompanied by behaviors or comments that, regardless of intention, are painful. Will staff understand their identities? To reach outside of one’s tiny community for support also necessitates recognition of one’s experience as abuse. Messaging that abuse is primarily experienced by women in heterosexual relationships is powerful in our society, and an LGBTQ+ survivor may not identify what they’re experiencing as abuse. The tiny world of an LGBTQ+ survivor could be broadened at each level by societal shifts away from homophobia and transphobia. Our work as community members is not just interpersonal. We must do our part in combatting the oppression LGBTQ+ individuals experience to make it more accessible to reach out for support and build healthier relationships free of shame, secrecy, and fear. DOVE serves survivors of all genders and sexualities. Reach out for support if you need it.
- Domestic Violence Awareness Month: From One Survivor To Another
As October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, I wanted to share some insight into the ongoing problem of domestic violence, especially during these unprecedented times. As someone who has experienced it myself, I know that there are so many fears and emotions that keep victims and survivors stuck; self-blame, guilt, and shame can stop us from reaching out. I am the mother of four young adults right now but during my divorce, they were four school-aged children. My ex-husband was in the law enforcement field and so, I hid the abuse for a very long time. The good news is that there are programs out there that can help survivors of domestic violence and their children. If you are a survivor, I hope you are reading this now: you are loved, you are cared for. If it is safe to do so, please find a way to make a phone call to your local domestic violence agency or to someone you trust for support. As for myself, I still struggle sometimes. I have lost a lot of friends along the way after my divorce and know how devastating the isolation can be. I gain strength, however, from a domestic violence support group at DOVE once a week and my other spiritual and social support systems. Now, I hope to share my story to make sure others don’t ever have to feel alone again. So please find somebody that you trust, make that call to your local domestic violence agency, start planning for your safety and wellbeing. You deserve to live a life free of abuse! Please stay healthy and safe! Lisa
- DOVE Signs on to JDI's Letter of Support for Police Accountability
A Joint Letter From Programs Serving Sexual and Domestic Violence Survivors Dear Speaker DeLeo, Senate President Spilka, and Policing Reform Conference Committee Members: We, the undersigned community-based sexual and domestic violence service providers, urge you to take immediate action to pass a policing reform bill that incorporates the many provisions of S.2820/H.4886 designed to increase police accountability and reduce harm in communities most impacted by police violence. Those who oppose police reform often cite the needs of victims of domestic violence and sexual assault as reasons not to place reasonable limits on police authority to use force. This argument presumes that the greatest risk to victims is the person who caused them immediate harm, and the greatest means of protection is to call the police. However, the reality for many victims and survivors is that both police action and inaction can sometimes add more harm, and these harms are disproportionately experienced by people and communities of color, immigrants, poor people, those struggling with addiction and mental illness, and so many more. As organizations who work to end sexual and domestic violence, we want you to hear directly from us that harm reduction in policing practices is essential to ensuring that law enforcement officers and the system as a whole will be more effective and more accountable to the communities they serve. Survivors repeatedly tell us that they do not want their abuser hurt, and certainly not killed, when they call for help; they want the harm to stop, to feel safe in their own homes, and for those who caused them harm to be held accountable in meaningful ways. Victims should also not have to worry that they or their children might be hurt by the very people they are calling for help. We ask that you declare that Black lives in the Commonwealth matter by supporting efforts that will reduce the harm of police-inflicted violence on our communities. Omnibus Policing Reform Priorities We see the provisions of S.2820/H.4886 as one step towards reducing the harm of structural violence in Massachusetts. In particular, the following provisions must be included in an Omnibus Policing Reform bill to improve the safety and justice for all people in the Commonwealth. 1. Ban the most violent of police tactics. We urge the Conference Committee to include strong use of force standards including a complete ban on the most violent of police tactics—chokeholds, no-knock warrants and tear gas and other chemical weapons. These violent and harmful police tactics need to be prohibited to ensure the safety of all persons who encounter a police officer. We have witnessed time and again the use of chokeholds by police officers against Black men that ultimately lead to death. This practice cannot continue. We have also seen the dangers of no-knock warrants which are disproportionately used when Black and Brown people are the suspects. Lastly, tear gas and other chemical weapons have been shown to cause serious hormonal disruption, bodily injury and even death. The Commonwealth must not allow these dangerous practices that disproportionately target and harm Black people to continue. 2. Strict limits on qualified immunity. It is imperative the Conference Committee answer the calls of the people to impose strict limits on qualified immunity to ensure that police can be held accountable when they violate people’s rights. Banning violent police tactics is meaningless if there is no way for people to hold the police accountable if they break the rules. 3. Ban on the use of facial recognition technology. Face surveillance technologies have serious racial bias flaws built into their systems. Based on research, we know this technology is extremely poor at accurately recognizing the faces of women and people of color, misclassifying darker-skinned females at an extremely higher rate than lighter-skinned males. These dangerous failings of facial recognition technology serve to supercharge racist policing. Furthermore, all survivors of sexual and domestic violence, and particularly Black survivors, should not have to worry that calling the police will result in them being wrongfully identified as a criminal or having their activity monitored. 4. Prevent sexual assault in police custody. Included as an amendment to H.4886, this provision closes a statutory loophole by prohibiting law enforcement officers from engaging in sexual conduct with persons in their custody. There is no clear ability to determine consent when power dynamics are so significant that one party has the power and ability to control another’s personal liberty. Law enforcement officers should not be able to use their role to subject a person in their custody to any unwanted sexual contact of any kind. 5. Create an Independent Oversight System with Strong Accountability Measures: Massachusetts is one of only a few states without a POST system. Any oversight body should have strong civilian representation and evidentiary standards that enable rather than deny justice. We urge the Committee to establish a POST system that is truly independent and includes strong representation from members of the public who have personal and/or professional experience with respect to the impact of structural racism on communities of color. 6. Justice Reinvestment and Opportunity in Communities Affected by Incarceration : Reducing the harm of police-inflicted violence on communities also requires investing in communities most impacted by crimes and the successes of criminal justice reform. We support investing in the Justice Reinvestment Workforce Development Fund to support communities heavily impacted by crime and the criminal justice system. Using savings from reductions in incarceration to strengthen communities & prevent crime through programs like workforce development, social enterprise & small business development, dropout prevention programs, and transitional employment improve the lives of survivors of sexual and domestic violence and their communities. 7. Commission on Structural Racism: Unfortunately, our declarations of injustice and critiques of structural racism often fall on unsympathetic ears in the absence of empirical data. Despite the numerous reports that look at racial disparities, there has not been a commission that will take a comprehensive look at the policies and practices that lead to racially disparate outcomes. In order to hone in on the policies and practices that lead these disparate outcomes we trust that you will include in the final version of the bill a commission on structural racism. This is our opportunity as a Commonwealth to invest in our communities to build a more equitable and just Commonwealth that explicitly values Black Lives, and which in doing so will also improve the ability of law enforcement to more effectively and ultimately more safely respond to domestic and sexual violence. Signed, Sue Chandler DOVE Executive Director