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OUR MISSION, VISION, & VALUES MISSION Hope, healing, safety, social change. Working together to end domestic and partner violence. VISION A community unified in peace, justice, and equity, for the safety and well-being of every individual. VALUES Anti-oppression. We understand that domestic and sexual violence are rooted in white supremacy, patriarchy, and economic oppression. We engage in efforts to dismantle these systems at all levels as we work toward liberation. Being bold and taking risks. Inspired by survivors, we strive to be courageous in taking action with and for survivors, staff, and community. Connection. We value building authentic relationships with each other and being in solidarity with survivors and community partners. Culture of learning and growth. Together we learn, grow, and inspire one another to create a more just and equitable world free of violence. Empowerment. Through collaboration and mutual respect, we promote self-determination and lift up our communities' voices. Integrity. We are committed to our mission, vision, and values, and embrace a culture of accountability when we act outside of them. RESILIENCE LIKE RIPPLES ON A POND A SAFE PLACE

General Domestic Violence Resources Assessment of Change in Abusive People Power & Control Wheel Control Tactics Used By Abusive Partners Red Flags Disguised as Romantic Gestures Couples Counseling Relationship Bill of Rights Cycle of Abuse Relationship Spectrum Defining Domestic Violence Restraining Order Process Defining Healthy Relationships Restraining Order Information Domestic Violence & the Faith Community Supporting Patients How to Support Survivors Personalized Safety Plan Types of Abuse What Can I Do To Address Domestic Violence?

Contact Us IF YOU NEED IMMEDIATE HELP AND FEEL YOU ARE IN DANGER - DIAL 911 Our business office hours are 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM ET, Monday to Friday. DOVE Hotline: 617-471-1234 or 888-314-3683 Counseling Services Intake Line: 617-770-4065 ext. 300 Legal Services Intake Line: 617-770-4065 ext. 400 Media: news@dovema.org Events & fundraising: development@dovema.org In-kind donations: development@dovema.org Volunteer opportunities: volunteer@dovema.org Training, workshops, and speaking engagements: jen.bolton@dovema.org Order materials & posters

Join DOVE For Harvesting Hope Purchase Tickets to Attend Your support truly matters, makes a difference, and saves lives. Support survivors Win amazing prizes DOVE Staff can't wait to see you! Support survivors 1/7 Join DOVE at Harvesting Hope as we honor Lindsay Hite, our 2023 Pillar of Hope Awardee for her amazing support of our work! Lindsay has generously donated a Show Your Spark Radiant package, valued at $7,000, that will be part of our Live Auction! Remember, this is a special discount code for the Show Your Spark community ! Please let us know any seating preferences in the Comments section of the form. Return to Home

Purchase Raffle Tickets Win a Weekend Getaway at a Hidden Gem on Nantasket Beach! Just featured on Magnolia Network and South Shore Magazine Welcome to the Salty Daughter, a newly renovated beach bungalow just 360 yards from the most beautiful part of Nantasket Beach. Features 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, two living spaces, two dining/entertaining spaces, dedicated office space, all the toys and books & records and beach equipment you could need. The house is a true gem full of character and fun amenities like magical outdoor dining spaces, curated record and book collections, a dreamy children's room with double bunks and an airy, bright aesthetic perfect for vacation. Winning ticket to be drawn at Let’s Dance on May 2nd - winner need not be present to win. 3-night stay / Mutually Agreed Upon Date Valued at $1,650 If you buy tickets online, we will email you with your ticket numbers and you can pick them up at registration or keep the email on hand if you do not plan to attend the event. You can also buy tickets at the event if you plan to join us on May 2nd! Buy Tickets to Attend Let's Dance

Scroll to View More Scroll to View More A Survivor's Wisdom “The chief of police referred me to DOVE. In my group support meeting, I felt that I was giving support, and I was getting support. I was talking to a group of women who understand what domestic violence is. I realized why should I stay in a relationship that I’m not happy with? There was a better way to live my life and I’m glad that I went to DOVE. I felt that I’m not alone and it g ave me the strength to leave. And I did.” - Yaffa B. Message from DOVE's Board President "We are grateful to you, our growing community, for your steadfast and new support that made it possible for DOVE to transition this year and continue to be the compassionate and caring center you expect, and hundreds of survivors depend upon. This year marked a milestone in our mission to end domestic and partner violence, which began 45 years ago. Over the past 45 years of DOVE’s leadership, we have had the privilege of working with the community to help fund the work we do daily." Click here to read Stephanie's full letter in the Annual Impact Report. Stephanie Neal-Johnson President, Board of Directors FY2023-2024 Click on the button below to access the full Fiscal Year 2023 Annual Impact Report! Read Annual Impact Report “I came to DOVE and I had a conversation and I began to understand that this wasn’t normal. It wasn’t just mean, it was far beyond that. When DOVE taught me about the cycle of violence and that it wasn’t my fault I learned that I could choose a new path. I started nursing school and graduated valedictorian. He had told me I was stupid and that I wasn’t worth anything. But by this time I knew, I didn’t have to believe it.” ~ A Survivor HH Sponsors Your Impact in FY2023 Thank you to all who have donated and contributed to DOVE's essential life-saving services. Government Funds • Massachusetts Department of Public Health • Massachusetts Executive Office of Public Safety & Security, Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) STOP Grant • Massachusetts Office for Victim Assistance, Victims of Crime Act (VOCA) Grants • Office of the Norfolk County Commissioners Your Support Matters. FY2023 Revenue and Expenses Donor Spotlight Lindsay Hite Weymouth photographer/owner and creator of ‘Show Your Spark’, Lindsay Hite’s support for DOVE began in 2021 at the recommendation of her clients and followers. The mission of ‘Show Your Spark’ is an inclusive, luxurious, full-service portrait experience designed to help you step into your confidence and reclaim your power, a natural alignment with DOVE. When asked what it means to be a pillar of hope Lindsay shared, “It honestly leaves me speechless and humbled. I play a very small part in helping DOVE do their important work, and I am so grateful to relate to an organization that is open to collaboration and creative ideas for fundraising. It’s such a joy to work with DOVE and I am always blown away when I hear about the new initiatives and everyday impact they have.” Thank you, Lindsay, for supporting us! Volunteer Spotlight Stacy Murphy Stacy Murphy first learned about DOVE by attending Let’s Dance, DOVE’s Spring Fundraiser. Interested in learning more, Stacy volunteered her time to support DOVE’s Holiday Assistance Program. During this volunteer opportunity Stacy got to organize items and walk DOVE program participants through our holiday Pop-Up Shop. Stacy expanded her volunteer efforts by joining the event committee in the summer of 2023. Stacy can provide unique feedback and support to help with planning our events given her prior experience attending both Let’s Dance and Harvesting Hope. Whether she’s supporting at the gala, soliciting for auction items, or working directly with our DOVE clients; we are so thankful for Stacy’s support as a volunteer! October 24, 2024 Boston Marriott, Quincy May 2, 2024 Granite Links, Quincy Save the Dates! Past Annual Impact Reports FY2022 FY2021 FY2020 FY2019 FY2018 FY2017 FY2016 FY2015 FY2014 FY2013 FY2012 FY2022 FY2021 FY2020 FY2019 FY2018 FY2017 FY2016 FY2015 FY2014 FY2013 FY2012 FY2022 FY2021 FY2020 FY2019 FY2018 FY2017 FY2016 FY2015 FY2014 FY2013 FY2012

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Beth Porter Board President, Nonprofit Professional Beth (she/her) brings over 30 years’ experience in nonprofit management with specific expertise in turning around organizations, program growth and implementation, and leadership development. She also has deep experience in the areas of strategic and development planning, all aspects of fund development as well as board building and structuring. She particularly enjoys building solid relationships with stakeholders, board and staff members, supporters, and the community. Beth also serves as a member of her town’s climate action planning committee and as a volunteer grant writer for RISE Academy, formerly Project RISE. Beth lives with her husband, Mark, is the happy mother of two humans and one pup, and the grandmother of three humans, one pup, and one cat. Why are you excited to work with DOVE? Violence against women remains a critical issue globally, and is a barrier to reaching equality. In the spirit of thinking globally and acting locally, I am eager to support DOVE’s outstanding work on the South Shore and to increase awareness of the issue of domestic violence in our communities. I fully support DOVE’s tag line – Every home should be a safe home. Fun Fact! I am deaf in my left ear, so if I appear to be ignoring you, try the other side. Back to Board of Directors

Dance party of the year to benefit a local domestic violence agency. Thank You To Our Sponsors! Champion Advocate The Blair Family Foundation The Hale Family Community Dr. Olivia Moorehead-Slaughter & Dr. Dennis Slaughter Friends of DOVE Glenn Ricciardelli DJ Sponsor Game Sponsor Photography Provided By Thank You to Our 2025 Event Commitee! Beth Porter Board Vice President Ava Melchin Hannah Marsh Cindy Ouellette Lauren McCallum Elise Tenney Want to Sponsor Let's Dance? Your support as an event sponsor shows our community members that you stand with us against domestic and partner violence. Click Here to View PDF I'd Love to Sponsor! Let's Dance 2024 Thank you to everyone who attended Let's Dance 2024! Because of your incredible generosity and support, we raised $140,000 to sustain our programs and services. We are so grateful to every person who engaged with us at Let's Dance, took time to learn more about our organization and how we help survivors, and dedicated themselves to helping us in our mission. It is by acting together as a community that we can provide hope, healing, safety, and social change as we work to end domestic and partner violence. 1/3 All photos taken by Susan Hagstrom of Snapshots by Susan

Learn More What Is Domestic Violence? Domestic violence, also known as partner abuse, is a pattern of behavior used to establish non-consensual power and control over another person through fear and intimidation. While the abuse may cause injury, it does not have to be physical. Domestic violence also takes the form of emotional, verbal, sexual, technological, cultural and financial abuse. Domestic violence affects people of all races, ethnicities, gender and sexual identities, abilities and socio-economic classes. Partner abuse happens when one person believes that they are entitled to control another. Assault, battering, and domestic violence are crimes For anonymous, confidential help available 24/7, call DOVE's hotline at 617-471-1234 or 888-314-3683 What Does Abuse Include? Abuse may begin with behaviors that may easily be dismissed or downplayed such as name-calling, threats, possessiveness, or distrust. Abusers may apologize profusely for their actions or try to convince the person they are abusing that they do these things out of love or care. However, violence and control always intensifies over time with an abuser, despite the apologies. What may start out as something that was first believed to be harmless (e.g., wanting the victim to spend all their time only with them because they love them so much) escalates into extreme control and abuse (e.g., threatening to kill or hurt the victim or others if they speak to family, friends, etc.). Some examples of abusive tendencies include but are not limited to: Jealousy Cruelty to Animals or Children Controlling Behavior “Playful” Use of Force in Sex Quick Involvement Verbal Abuse Unrealistic Expectations Rigid Sex Roles Isolation Past Battering Threats of Violence Breaking or Striking Objects Hypersensitivity Any Force During an Argument Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde Blaming others for problems or feelings Is Domestic Violence Always Physical Abuse? It is important to note that domestic violence does not always manifest as physical abuse. Emotional and psychological abuse can often be just as extreme as physical violence. Lack of physical violence does not mean the abuser is any less dangerous to the victim, nor does it mean the victim is any less trapped by the abuse. For anonymous, confidential help available 24/7, call DOVE's hotline at 617-471-1234 or 888-314-3683 View Our Resource Page

Help Support View Sponsorship Opportunities Below Want to sponsor Let's Dance? Your support as an event sponsor shows our community members that you stand with us against domestic and part ner violence. DOVE’s signature fundraising events are not just about raising the critical funds for our programs and services. Events are also an opportunity for us to showcase the work we do, inviting new members to join us in the fight to end domestic and partner violence. Purchase a Sponsorship Click on the image to view PDF Please let us know any seating preferences in the Comments section of the form. This is a 21+ event Let's Dance Home Page Your support truly matters, makes a difference, and saves lives. Be inspired by our program Support survivors Can't wait to see you there! Be inspired by our program 1/7

Join DOVE at Purchase Tickets to Attend Your support truly matters, makes a difference, and saves lives. Be inspired by our program Support survivors Can't wait to see you there! Be inspired by our program 1/7 Please let us know any seating preferences in the Comments section of the form. This is a 21+ event Let's Dance Home Page